Learn to Accept the Least

One of the biggest reasons why people fail in life is fear.

First, many dare not even start to pursue what they love due to fear. They dream to have their own business, but are fearful to risk even the first dollars. They want to lead, but are afraid to do so fearing that people would not listen to them. They secretly admire someone, but dare not even stand up and speak to the persons.

Fear also brings failure to those who have embarked on their journey. They have self-doubt. They are fearful of the challenges ahead. They are doubtful if they are doing the right things. Fear inflicts in them stress, worries and perplexity that reduce their chances of success in life.

One of the ways to overcome fear is as Tao puts it — learn to appreciate moderation. Aim for the best, but be happy to get even the least — and appreciate whatever you get.

For example, if you put in your best, but are still rejected by the person you like, the very least that it can get is to have a clear idea of what the person think of you. Better still, it may allow you to come up with a better strategy when you make your second attempt.

When you can appreciate the least, fear could very well leave you alone – because you can afford to lose. Without fear, you become more confident and are more at ease.

Paradoxically, it is because you can accept the least that you may get more. This is because the confidence that you have earned increases in your chances of success.

There is nothing better than moderation, for teaching people or serving Heaven.” - Lao Tzu

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